Something to look foward to

I had an epiphany yesterday: I have very little that I am looking forward to.

This is a rude realization – it reeks of hopelessness and hints at depression. It leaves me feeling empty and sad.

And I see that it needs to be remedied.

I’m not talking about planning a vacation, or what museums to explore on the weekends. It’s not about looking forward to a trip, even a trip to see my kids.

What I crave is people. Interactions with others. Social relationships. Fellowship, as discussed in today’s sermon, where you give yourself to others, and they give themselves to you. I miss the opportunity to be in ministry, to be in leadership. To serve others. To be with others.

My job is not filling the need I had hoped – to connect with co-workers and to forge relationships. Instead, I work with an individual, do the paperwork, and go home. Very little to no interaction with anyone other than my student. Not what I was looking for in a job.

I could turn my attention to volunteering. Perhaps I should register with the local hospital, and find some hours that fill my days with people.

I am enjoying my Bible Study and look forward to Thursdays,  I also look expectantly to lunch dates, or chiropractic appointments, or anything else that gets me out of the house during the otherwise long days.

I need to find hope in my day-to-day. To have things that make getting out of bed worth it. I admit that I stay in bed many mornings because I have nothing I need to get up for.

What if I joined a gym? Would I look forward to walking on the treadmill, next to others walking too? I know I appreciated and even looked forward to my physical therapy – maybe it would be the same. Maybe I would even make a friend or two.

How can I become more eager to get out of bed to meet with Jesus? My Bible Study helps with that, definitely. I am excited to see what God will teach me. But how do I translate that to daily living? To jumping out of bed so that I can meet with God in my quiet time? Is that enough to bolt me from my bed every morning? I reluctantly admit that it is not, at least not yet. Maybe that is an area where I am growing.

And as I keep saying, these things – relationships – take time.

So I’ll be excited to do my daily Bible Study. I’ll anticipate lunch with a friend. I’ll look into volunteering. And I’ll pray for God to bring me the enthusiasm to get going each day, to expect what and who He has for me.  Perhaps those friendships are coming, and can be something to look forward to!

5 thoughts on “Something to look foward to

  1. rlseaton January 29, 2017 / 1:08 am

    Peggy, I have no answers other than I can continue to pray – pray for a breakthrough. Scripture says that after we have suffered for a time, God himself will restore us and make us strong, firm, and steadfast. (I Peter 5:10) I look forward with you to that day. (I have experienced the pain, and seen the days of restoration – so I know it is true.) Don’t give up!

    I wanted you to know that I have nominated you for a Blogger Recognition Award. Please read, and if you should choose to pass it on, the blog gives the instructions. At least, know that you are an inspiration to me.

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  2. kbailey374 January 23, 2017 / 5:31 am

    Do a search online for blog challenges. There are 90 day ones, or theme ones (I know there is a mental health circle right here on WordPress – don’t know how to find that but I can look later) – I really think blogging gives one clarity (sonething I have not been doing!!) Love you Deah!

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    • peggyricewi January 23, 2017 / 9:15 am

      Love the idea of blogging, wish I were writing more often. Perhaps a challenge would inspire me!

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  3. Enjoying the Journey with Harper January 22, 2017 / 8:59 pm

    Happy Sunday to you!!! Your volunteering idea sounds awesome. Also, check the Bible app. It has super daily devotionals that are subject specific. If you have a rec center/YMCA nearby, they probably offer various classes you could take to give you a weekly schedule of events to attend. Your bible study also sounds like fun. You got this gal!!! Blessings to you!!! 😘

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